There are some places in Adelaide that simply feel like they belong in a fairytale, and Thorngrove Manor is one of them. Its whimsical turrets, enchanting gardens, and unmistakable castle-like charm make it the perfect backdrop for a love story that feels larger than life. For Lydia and Simon, this magical setting became the stage for a proposal that was as heartfelt as it was unforgettable.
As a photographer, being invited to capture such a personal chapter in a couple’s journey is always special. This proposal at Thorngrove Manor wasn’t just about a ring and a question—it was about months of planning, hidden surprises, and the joy of creating an experience Lydia would never forget. The whole day unfolded like a beautifully written story, with me tucked quietly into the sidelines, trying my best to stay hidden while making sure every priceless reaction was caught on camera.
Prior to the big moment
Simon had been planning his proposal for quite some time. From the very first phone call, his excitement was obvious. He wanted everything to be just right—not only for Lydia to say “yes,” but for the memory to feel deeply personal and filled with their story. He emailed me ideas, lists of props, and detailed run sheets that made it clear this wasn’t just a proposal. It was a love letter brought to life.
On the day, his preparation paid off. A cosy teepee and picnic setup had been carefully arranged on the rear castle lawn, with the help of close friends and family. A video of well wishes from loved ones was queued up and ready to play, adding a heartfelt touch that would bring Lydia to tears.
As if that wasn’t enough, Simon had also prepared a personal serenade, singing to her with all the emotion of the moment, his voice carrying across the lawn and adding yet another layer of intimacy to the proposal. His vision was a blend of romance, creativity, and nostalgia, all woven together in the most thoughtful way.
Journey through their Relationship
Every element of Simon’s plan was tied to their history as a couple. He’d asked helpers to create a pathway lined with photographs and paintings—snapshots of milestones, holidays, and everyday moments that reflected their journey together. Each picture told a story, marking the laughter, the adventures, and the little things that had defined their relationship.
Walking down that pathway wasn’t just about leading Lydia to the proposal spot. It was about reliving the years they’d shared, the memories that had shaped them, and the love that had only grown stronger with time. It was such a touching idea to include their story in such a visual way, turning the proposal into something layered with meaning and nostalgia.
Proposal at Thorngrove Manor
The grand finale was waiting in front of the castle keep: a circle arbour dressed with flowers, glowing softly in the fading light. It was here, surrounded by the striking stonework of Thorngrove Manor and the beauty of the arbour, that Simon dropped to one knee. Lydia’s surprise and joy were written across her face, her hands flying to her mouth in disbelief before tears and laughter took over.
Capturing that exact second is always a thrill—the raw emotion, the instant shift in energy, the knowledge that life has just changed forever. For me, the challenge was staying invisible while crouching in gravel that crunched louder than I’d like. There weren’t many places to hide around the castle grounds, but that only made it more fun. Ducking behind walls, peeking through hedges, and carefully timing each shot meant I had to be part ninja, part photographer. And in the end, every moment was worth the effort.
Glamour photos
Once Lydia said yes, the pressure lifted and the celebration began. We wandered through the spectacular grounds of Thorngrove Manor, creating a set of glamour photos that radiated pure joy. The two of them couldn’t stop grinning as they danced, skipped, and posed in the most carefree ways. Those candid, silly moments are often the ones that shine the brightest in a gallery.
The manor’s gardens provided endless inspiration. From romantic shots under ivy-covered archways to playful moments along stone pathways, every corner offered a new backdrop. Lydia and Simon’s happiness was infectious, and it was impossible not to laugh along with them as they spun each other around, whispered inside jokes, and soaked in the magic of being newly engaged.
Big Reveal
While we were busy with the glamour shoot, I knew their friends and family were waiting just outside the gates. They’d been instrumental in setting everything up earlier, and now it was time for them to join the celebration. I called them in, and suddenly the grounds were alive with hugs, laughter, and happy tears.
It was the perfect ending to the day. We snapped a few quick family portraits before the group packed up the setup and headed off for a celebratory dinner. Lydia and Simon were still glowing, hand in hand, surrounded by the people who loved them most. That mix of intimacy and togetherness is what makes proposals so powerful—the private moment between two people, followed by the joy of sharing the news with family and friends.
For me, photographing this proposal at Thorngrove Manor was a privilege. Adelaide has no shortage of beautiful locations, but this fairytale castle will always stand out as one of the most enchanting. And for Lydia and Simon, it will forever be the place where their next chapter began.
